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Are you on the road to divorce?

On Behalf of | May 2, 2022 | Divorce |

When you married your college sweetheart it was forever. Or so you thought. After 10 years together and three beautiful children, you really do not want to think about your marriage coming to an end. Yet, you are so unhappy that you don’t know what to do. You find yourself daydreaming about a life free from the constraints of this marriage.

Accepting that you’re marriage is heading toward divorce is difficult, to say the least. You and your spouse have been together for so long that you can not imagine leaving them behind. But the lack of communication between you is upsetting. You tried counseling but it didn’t help. Still, you just don’t know if you should take that first step toward leaving.

Look for the signs

When thinking about a divorce, you need to realistically evaluate the situation. Here are some signs to consider when making your decision:

  • Affection and intimacy have gone by the wayside.
  • Infidelity has sparked trust issues between you.
  • You grow impatient easily with your spouse, even when it’s not deserved.
  • You feel as if your spouse doesn’t listen to you, anymore.
  • There’s a pattern of emotional or physical abuse in your marriage and you are tired of walking on eggshells.
  • You are hesitant to leave because of the children.
  • Domestic violence has become a problem.
  • Negativity has taken over where there used to be happiness.
  • You feel that your spouse no longer respects you.

Facing even one of these situations can have you feeling like it is time to move on. If you have decided that you want a divorce, the first thing that you should do is contact an experienced legal advisor. They will help you determine what your next steps should be on this journey.

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