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Don’t let emotions dictate how child custody matters unfold

| Nov 8, 2021 | Child Custody |

Child custody matters during a divorce often become very heated, but parents who can work together for the children’s sake often end up with a less stressful situation. One of the most important things to remember when you’re coming up with the terms of the parenting plan is that the children’s needs must remain the sole focus. 

It’s all too easy to let emotions run rampant during the custody process. Instead of falling into that habit, remember these points:

Marital problems don’t matter

The issues that caused your marriage to deteriorate wouldn’t play a role in child custody unless the children were being abused or neglected. Avoid rehashing those problems while you’re making decisions about the children. This can help to keep the focus on determining what’s best for the children instead of making choices based on what makes life more miserable for your ex or better for you.

Parenting plans can be modified

It’s possible to modify a parenting plan as the child’s needs change. Because of this, you shouldn’t feel as though you have to think too far into the future. Instead, set the plan based on what the children need right now and leave the option of modification open. 

You have to put your children first when you’re going through a divorce. Getting your parenting plan in order quickly can help to give them the stability they need throughout this major life upheaval. Working with your ex now can set the stage for a positive co-parenting situation in the future. Be sure that you understand your options as you go through this process. 

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